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Start the new year by changing the way you watch reality TV forever

Start the new year by changing the way you watch reality TV forever
Andy Dehnart speaking during TEDx Stetson U in 2013, which was about reality TV and why you should always make sure your sweater doesn't match the background of the space you'll be standing in.

Last spring, I was asked to speak at TEDxStetsonU, and used the opportunity to tell the story of what I’ve learned from reality TV as a viewer and a critic—and talk about Mister Rogers, who’s the best ever and who literally inspired my interest in television.

I also proposed a new way of watching reality TV. More specifically, it’s a new way of thinking about, relating to, and even interacting with the people we’re watching.

I’m curious what you think: if it’s realistic, delusional, or somewhere in between. It’s not a technique I’ve perfected, for sure, but is something to strive for.

As a bonus, this TED Talk includes actual proof that wearing a black sweater against a black backdrop isn’t a great idea. I’m amazed it hasn’t yet gone viral for that reason alone.

 

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  • Andy Dehnart is the creator of reality blurred and a writer and teacher who obsessively and critically covers reality TV and unscripted entertainment, focusing on how it’s made and what it means.

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