John: “manipulation is inherently a defense mechanism for many gay people.”

John: “manipulation is … a defense mechanism for many gay people.”
Responding to questions about similarities between Richard Hatch and himself, Survivor Marquesas‘ John tells TV Guide Online, “To be honest, my intention was not to lie, but I was in the closet for 21 years. When you are gay, you learn to have facades. So, I think manipulation is inherently a defense mechanism for many gay people.”
+ also: John says Rob “apologized profusely for calling me queer”; says the game “became less about winning and more about the homophobe versus the homo.”

Review: Married at First Sight

Marriage At First Sight

In an era of Tinder and Grindr, instant acceptance or dismissal of a potential partner, or instant sex with another body, Married at First Sight offers the thrill of watching strangers deal with the very basics of relationships.

Beyond the headline-grabbing premise, the series has turned out to be a stripped-down, authentic exploration of something very interesting. Read the full review.

about the writer

Andy Dehnart is a journalist who has covered reality television for more than 15 years and created reality blurred in 2000. A member of the Television Critics Association, his writing and criticism about television, culture, and media has appeared on NPR and in Playboy, Buzzfeed, and many other publications. Andy, 36, also directs the journalism program at Stetson University in Florida, where he teaches creative nonfiction and journalism. He has an M.F.A. in nonfiction writing and literature from Bennington College. More about reality blurred and Andy.